LeatherLilly write:
Steve...
Unfortunately its both sides of the toilet lid that do cheating. after all the guys that are cheating are cheating with someone are they not???
and although i blame the married/involved individual the most...the person hat is involved with the person is just as much a cheater..because well in my world just as i didn't like having a mistress in my marriage...I don't want to be someone else's mistress...
and the man that puts me in that position will rue the day that he does...I don't need to mess around with someone else's fella...I Will wait patiently until i trip over the one that doesn't cheat...if they will do it with you...they will do it to you!! and that is unfortunately a philosophical belief...if they cheat...they will always have a reason to o cheat..
the excuses i have heard is she doesn't excite me...well chances are you do not lite her fire all that much either...
he stopped paying attention to me...strip nekkid and meet him at the front door..he wont ignore you..
for every reason there is a way to fix it..
if you want to go somewhere else...then do it right...leave and then move on....
it isn't fair to the spouse either man or woman to leave them int he dark and fool around and contaminate them with your lies and extraneous behaviors...
and there is the law of cheating as per little red
Lilly,
I totally agree with everything that you have said. But, what I find unfair regarding this topic is that it always assumed that only men cheat (on themselves and their mate) whereas women are just as guilty.
I didn't know that my ex-wife was cheating until after we had split up. Granted, at the time I did have opportunities myself to "stray" but to me that didn't feel right and to do so would have violated a promise that I had made to her and the almighty.
Another thing that I don't understand about women is why do they seem to always go for men that will abuse them?
